Fri 9 Oct 2009
Doing The Hustle
Posted by nerdmeyr under Autobiographical
[4] Comments
The funny thing about being unemployed while still being employed is that its still not that fun.
When I attended a seminar on change management, the person leading the seminar showed a picture of a man, woman, and child walking down a road, toward the camera. The man and woman looked grim, eyebrows furrowed, and with a decidedly downcast aspect to their mouths. The child, on the other hand, was looking straight at the camera and appeared to be skipping. The backstory to the photo is that the three were walking away from what used to be their house, which had been blown away by a tornado. The tornado blew away much of their town, too. And the takeaway from the story is that the tornado is just an event. What people do afterwards is the change management.
I am managing the change. I read Gawker to self-satisfy that its probably not about me, but rather a blown-up, over-generalized sad state of affairs in all regards. I dutifully put in my time, comparing the list of my occupational handinesses to varying lists of workplace demands. I keep my chin elevated, my interview shoes shined, my three-minute elevator speech at the ready. I spend a good amount of time thanking various entities that I still have income. I spend other time in repose, thinking about the legions of farmers and salespeople and streetfolk who have never known income security, even if they attain professional status in their class and work as hard as they can. I wonder about the length of the shadow this time of our lives will have – I seemingly came into the world with a Depression-era mentality, but for others, I imagine the thick slurry of the unemployed and the small holes of the want ads is a deeply de-stabling envisage.
Its Friday night, and as with all evenings nowadays, I am looking for work or thinking about how I should be looking for work. That seems to be a full-time job in itself.

October 10th, 2009 at 3:29 am
Yeh …know what it’s like Amy. Been living in genteel poverty for over a year.
Funny though, I think when I look back I’ll see 2009 as an amazing year on so many levels.
I feel like the child skipping forward.
I had heaps of time to develop 2 new businesses – and still am.They will start earning me some income next yearish.
There was time to get out and barter my skills for things like coal and massages and meals in restaurants and paintings and even a clay class with an artist.
People asked me to help them organise fundraisers – next month we’re having the first community clothes swap and pamper night to aid 3 charities.
And …I took time to think and feel about what else I wanted to do be do.
In all that I turned 50 and have declared the next 12 months my personal celebration zone.
Much as I’ve enjoyed learning how to budget on little money [not!] I plan to make 2010 the year of financial abundance through a range of fun and value driven activities.
Sending you best wishes for a stupendous, interesting, creative, fun, job.
xxLiz
October 12th, 2009 at 10:09 pm
Thanks, Liz – if anyone knows how to make a tipsy lemonade out of lemons, its you.
Cheers!
October 17th, 2009 at 12:53 am
You’re my hero you know, so… let me do the brow furrowing while you skip.
Right now having a job isn’t that much fun either. Considering it’s 1:50am, and I’m into hour 75 for the week. On flat salary. Doh.
October 23rd, 2009 at 11:27 pm
Yeah, it does seem like you’ve been flattened by the job. Isn’t that always the way? You either have time or money but never both, and sometimes neither.